What to say to a friend who is dating a loser
Does he make you feel special?
Go on, ask away. Photo: Inkling De Source:Whimn. OK, so that's a bit harsh, but he is an A-hole with a capital A. He sponges money from her, drives her car more than his own and he has boozy nights out with the boys and then turns up drunk at her house at 4am.
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She is ready for you to meet him.
She wants your approval. If you answer negatively your friend may feel defensive, put her guard up and defend his actions rather than seeing him the way you do. Or, if you say too much too soon it could potentially backfire and your friend may get angry with you. If you begin boyfriend bashing you run the risk of your friend getting angry with you, defending him, and causing a wedge between you and your relationship. If she seems on the fence or questioning his motives then you may sensitively voice your concerns.
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Allow her to get over that feeling of bliss. Give her the time she needs and allow the newness of the relationship to wear off.
Then perhaps, she will be able to focus on the not so great qualities and see this guy for who he truly is. It is better to let her figure things out on her own before you tell her what you think.
What to do when your friend is dating a loser
The best way to avoid conflict between you and your friend is to direct questions to her and not attack her new boyfriend. Ask her questions such as, what do you like about him? Does he make you feel special? Do you laugh together?
Approaching your friend in this manner rather than being combative may open up the opportunity to get you both talking and allowing your friend to refocus her thoughts. About Mary Cope. Mary Cope is a first time author with Astraea Press.
Her book, Beautiful Oneis the first in a planned trilogy. She is currently writing the sequel, Beautiful Mess. Mary enjoys spending time with her family, baking, listening to music and taking long walks with her yellow lab, Maggie.
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